Outing is a terrible effect. Usually done by someone deeply offended, insulted, hurt or angry. Unless they're sociopaths (less than 0.2% of population are), they usually dislike the candidate. They did it to Trump, they tried it on Joe Biden. Teachers, camp counselors, social workers and foster parents had "friends" snitch on them.. I don't have much experience in the "adult world", these are what I've heard by word of mouth.

I heard of few MaleDoms losing their jobs over dominating women in BDSM community. Doesn't matter if consensual, it really depends on his workplace culture.


I was involved with FemDom community in Oregon. I heard at least a dozen consensual adults had to change jobs past 10 years..

One particular story was imprinted on my memory. Told by the 3rd friend of a personal circle.

I knew a woman that fostered a boy in Oregon, her friend since childhood not only had consensual BDSM with the boy for over 3 years, but also vaginally "jump and smash" sex. Eventually the 3rd friend snitched to a social worker and they were consequentially separated... The teen knew exactly what he was getting himself into and the personalities involved.

The 3rd friend (her words to me) saw the strong woman dragged the naked boy across the rural field towards the "raunchy barn" with rope attached to his groin and his hands pulling on the rope, begging her to stop while safe-wording. When 3rd friend told her to stop, the strong woman replied, "he's fine, he's erect", she kicked him hard in the nuts - "the echo startled the birds" (her words), pulled his leg instead to her cream-pie bondage bench. Apparently, she gets very horny certain days each month and eager "smash and mash" until they made cream-pie for an hour.

"Smash and mash" was code for vaginal riding onto cock and outercourse rubbing her vulva-clitoris on both cock and balls, to her own satisfaction. You can't smash and turn vagina into mash with a penis, but you can turn erect cock/balls into mash with strength of vagina and hips. Like a tool smashing and mashing potatoes, dough, butter and whip cream.

She snitched them to foster-guardian's social worker, boy was separated. I would had never knew the back-story if she never told me. I would be asking "where's __her_foster_son's__name_?" to other women at the gym.

Result could had been waaaaay worse, it taught me it really depends on relationship with the social-worker. Politicians in same team will protect each other's activities like bribes, affairs, and corruptions.

She warned me, "be careful of morally-deprived entitled dominants".