There should be a special place in hell for those that out others sexual preferences

It sounds like the guy in the nypost article is handling in a mature way and his social circle has been supportive and thats a good thing. I saw his quote of “bdsm is not something i am public about but im not embarrassed by it either”

Ive never been outed. I have domme friends who have been. Interestingly enough not for being a dominatrix but for other types of sex work. Id say for them it was a tough experience but also freeing in some ways

I do tell people about my interests in bdsm. I wouldn't care if i was outed at this point. Hell i have private videos of me that if they came out might jumpstart my sex life. But i am established now. I couldn’t always say that.

One problem i have with our community is that some people sexualize outing others. I believe that often does more harm than good. I wish there was more support on how to come out if you chose. Other groups in the LGBTQIA+ community have done a better job than us in the bdsm community.