There has been a trend where submissive men are described as betas and dominant males are described as Alphas. Alphas are often portrayed as strong and muscular. I get it in the context of fantasy of cuck play. But I also thought it was a strange distinction to break men into two categories based upon their interest in submission.

To me the stereotype of a traditional alpha male comes off as self center and egotistical.

I don’t really like either term but to me a man who focuses on a womans needs first, treats her with respect, makes her life better, helps to provide for her financially, emotionally, and physically would be an aloha male and that seems to describe quite a few submissive men