I agree with you. Scrolling through femdom twitter can be really dispiriting. I think findom has a place, but online it sometimes seems that it's all there is, and a lot of findom-type dynamics have spilled over more generally into the online marketing of many dommes who don't primarily base their practice around financial domination. I'm referring here to the things you're referring to -- the onslaught of "loser," etc. Of course, this isn't everyone, but I think the shift to online many dommes had to do during the pandemic caused them to shift how they had to present themselves to succeed in that arena.