I do like the heel sound on the hardwood floor and anticipation, but never get into the submissive side of things or role play. I just like the fetish aspect of women in BDSM attire or sometimes workout clothes where it's more laid back and I just want to see them in a sports bra or bra with a strapon and focus on activities during the session rather than a specific tone. Not too laid back to where they're asking what I like and if something is okay though.