Strip clubs are all over the map. Food is a good example. Scores had good quality food but it was extremely expensive. Another place in central CT had decent food and it was only moderately expensive.

Club rules about what is forbidden varies a great deal though some places cut regular customers a little bit of slack.

I am a switch. From 1995 to early 2006 my dominant side was stronger and discovered that if you are looking to hand spank a shapely behind most strip clubs are target rich environments. However there are a few switches who are more than happy to return the favor. Usually they can't take your trousers down (taking your shirt off for some NT is often OK though).

I know one club that had a very regular customer who loved to lick boots and got what he wanted. I am sure foot fetishists are often pleased. Verbal humiliation is tricky if that's your thing. Finding someone talented requires a fair bit of recon (one trick is you have a regular girl at the place is to ask her if she knows if there is a coworker into that). The club may have rules about how loud she can be.

Swordfish will probably want to opine on this topic.