I was reading the blog posts of a domme and I read reviews here and elsewhere. Some dommes like to have the sub not give much feedback during the session--other than yelling or screaming at times and they like the sub to either have instructions or be gagged. Others are on the opposite side and prefer that the sub give them feedback or stop them or safeword out or redirect things when there are problems.

As a domme, which do you tend to do or to prefer? If a guy is gagged is that good for the session because he won't be safewording out or trying? Or, with new clients do you wish to help guarantee that he can stop you?

As a sub, which dommes have tended to gag you and which have not and how has it affected the sessions, if at all?

Of the severe and tough dommes and mistresses, do they tend to prefer to gag you or enjoy letting you scream and try to stop them, unsuccessfully?