Exchanges like that are so hot. It is definitely sweet to have femdom in a personal relationship. Pro sessions are fun as hell. But, mixed into every day life like your and your girlfriend/Dom's shopping trip, are priceless.

That sounds totally fucking hot!! I'm not sure what the complaint is. Was the food ok?

Hehe! That's hilarious.

So... A couple of these that come to mind...

I've had a dog shocker collar wrapped around my nuts in public. My wife took me to a bar. She'd periodically shock me for fun. Sadly, she wasn't as into it as I hoped.

She sure as shit loved using the shocker when she had me locked in chastity, with my ankle chained to the wall in the closet. Apparently she wanted some alone time in our bed so she could watch porn and masturbate.

Periodically, she'd zap my nuts to hear me yelp in pain, and she didn't unlock me until the next morning.

And just being locked in chastity in public seemed to happen a lot - I suppose that falls under Not so public - public play.

Except for the night she took me to a gay bar and told anyone who would listen that she kept my penis locked in a cage.

That sounds pretty damn hot for her not to be into it.

Ooooh! This is one of my favorite activities! I'm very into WeVibe and Lovense's toys for this exact reason, as they're app-controlled and can be controlled from any distance. There are other subtle forms as well, such as taking My foot/heel fetishist out on a shoe shopping trip and having them put the shoes on My feet.

I'd never heard of WeVibe or Lovense until now. I'm glad you posted this. Why do I sense an online shopping spree coming on?

Closest experience to public play was having a domme session with window not fully closed. But there wasn't many people traveling through that area.



To real life non-BDSM public play.. Did some flashing before I knew it was "wrong"..

There was a hiking trial, where I wore a winter beanie hat with eye-holes cut out. Yoga instructor, a teacher, gym trainer, martial arts instructor - she chased me for awhile, I was terrified.

Previous year, a camp counselor or vice-warden saw me naked in the showers. That real CFNM really did it for me. The fastest way to develop CFNM fetish is experiencing it during early teen years. Ballbusting + CFNM also happened that year, but I honestly feel embarrassed about sharing it.

Right? Seems to not make sense.