I met my girlfriend online. I wasn't looking for a bdsm situation, although it's turned out to be a part of life together. If that had been in her ad, I would have gotten the wrong impression. We wouldn't have met. I'm glad she didn't talk to me about it until after we had spent time together. It's not first date stuff.

What comes to mind with your idea, Mistress, is the privacy of a professional woman who would participate. How would that be hidden from people, like me, online who could check out how a dominatrix conducts their personal dating. Not that I would. But, there are probably a lot of men who would do just that.