Thanks for sharing your adventures with us. I was wondering how that would go for you. As far as topping from the bottom, in general goes, it doesn't bother me as long as there are playful intentions behind it. I've had masochists, in a professional session, smart off because they want me to push them harder. So, I happily played along with it. What I haven't liked is when someone is passive aggressive or manipulative. A dom friend of mine had a slave that would "Accidentally" break things so he would get punished. It didn't take her long to catch on. She began sending them to Ikea to pick up furniture to put together. That was their punishment. Suddenly, the slave became less clumsy.