A related question from that is are you more respectful of mistresses than of the other women? For me the answer would be no, I think you should be respectful of all. I might say that I am also a little bit of a rebel. At work I had managers and people working for me.

I tended to treat better the second group, I saw it as a duty. You should treat the managers well too, but there is no need to be equally protective.