I'd have to say no. There are as many obnoxious femdom enthusiasts as there rude men in the vanilla world. Some times the depth of it is worse in the kink scene because it is personal. They didn't get enough attention at a party, Mistress XYZ forgot their birthday, Slave ABC got to worship boots while they felt ignored, ect. It is a small percentage but, at least in my personal experience in the mainstream world, so is the percentage of men who would bring harm to a woman or anyone. In my estimation, 95% of people in general are really cool. Then, there is the 5% that will be toxic, whether they are male or female.