Thought about this for the past several years when the Me Too movement emerged. To start, I'm past retirement age and most of the women I know and love - from my Mom, aunts, daughters, nieces, friends, co-workers - all have a story that starts with, "There was this guy a few years ago..." and ends with a male's harrassment of some type.

So, as a group, does anyone think male subs more respectful to women in the vanilla world? Most of us subs usually go above and beyond to please our Mistresses. But we've all heard stories of subs "topping from the bottom," coming up with specific scripts of sessions, harrassment of many forms.

My opinion is that the best subs, probably the "regulars" that Mistresses know very well, are very respectful as a group in the outside world. I know, a generality, but what do you think?