I am 100% with you on this whole thing and your analysis is spot on for me as well. I have multiple Dommes who love to order me to cross dress under my clothes while in public (including work situations). It is hot as hell to me to be controlled like that even though I am not into crossdressing as a fetish or desire (same thing goes with being plugged or forced to wear some other token of their control). For the Dommes, they seem to love the power of making me serve them for an entire day like this by only saying a few words of instruction... And they tend to love it even more if it causes some difficulty or consternation that I have to deal with because of it.

Asp