My girlfriend and I are considering a session with a professional. My girlfriend will be in a dominant role. The formality and equipment is the driving force here. Travel isn't a big deal. We are going to tie it into a vacation. Any recommendations?

I would think that most prodoms see couples. It is good to talk with someone on the phone to see if you pick up on a connection and interest. You've mention the formality of a professional studio and combining the experience with a vanilla vacation. Michelle Lacy would probably be a good fit. She has two incredible studios in South Florida. She is also an amazing session dom, very open minded. If it is kinky, she'll love it. She has taught a lot of courses in bdsm. So, she'd probably be comfortable taking a hands on teacher role for you and your girlfriend if that is what you are looking for.

DEFINITELY Mistress Michelle loves these type of sessions. I think Mistress Ayn in Atlanta might be a great choice as well. If travel is not an issue, and if the UK opens, Mistress Tess across the pond is diabolically wonderful.

Thanks for the advice. Florida and Georgia seem like viable options for us. I've looked at both lady's websites. The reality that we are actually going to do this is exciting.

enjoy!!

Hello SB. Kudos to you and your partner for exploring this together. As teddy said, I do love couples sessions and I do a lot of them. So if you are ever in Atlanta, look Me up. Here is a link to some of the work I have done with couples:

http://mistressayn.com/blog/tag/couples/

We have even had too couples come to FemDom Mansion:

https://femdommansion.com/pressing-candy-into-service-at-femdom-mansion/
https://femdommansion.com/a-subsub-couples-experience/

You should definitely do your research and have your wife talk with the perspective Domme. A chat with the female half is a requirement of Mine. It puts her at ease and helps Me establish her level of interest. If she has fun and feels empowered and sexy, you can't help but have fun too. I will also say that respect for the couple dynamic is imperative. I don't treat the male sub the same in a couple's session. It is a completely different dynamic than a solo session. Also note that some Dommes don't see couples. I have had many pros say they have encountered drama and find the situation to be more work than it is worth. I have seldom felt that way, but I think it has to do with My screening process. Hope this helps.

As a devoted follower of Mistress Ayn for many years, I can tell you that I have seen how excited she gets over these situations and that she has couples who visit with her on a regular basis (return visits is absolutely the best recommendation anyone can ever give a Domme), so she is absolutely the first person who came to mind when I read this.

Thank you. This is very helpful. I have looked at your website and was impressed. We ended up booking with a Dom in Florida with the deciding factor being how to tie it in with a vacation. I've enjoyed reading your posts and am impressed with your reviews. Hopefully, our experience as a couple is something that goes well and we can eventually come to see you in a warmer month. I respect that you talk to both parties of a couple. My girlfriend is the one who turned me on to all of this. But, the extent of our experience is in our bedroom with items purchased from Home Depot. I find myself being a little too distracted with my personal excitement while it should really be centered around her. It is good to know there are ladies who take they dynamics of the a couple into consideration.