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I knew I was dominant really early on, but was very ashamed to act on it. I had pretty extreme CNC fantasies, among other "taboo" things I liked and thought something was wrong with me. Am I a bad person? Do I need to see a therapist? All these thoughts kept my kinky side in a corner. I was lucky to find someone who didn't shame me at the time, and had complimentary interests. My confidence skyrocketed.

I tried to find out more of my interests through porn, bad idea. I was not the whip-and-chain brutal Dominatrix that porn told me to be. It took me a while to realize I could be dominant AND sensual. I could be loving, intimate, caring, and still have men tremble under my control. Domming now for me is so much more cathartic and fulfilling.