I have a very specific session that I've had several times. Of course it's not going the full route as that would be too real. It's an executrix scene involving suffocation. I know full well it can't be real as it's so extreme. But the fantasy around the scene (flirtation/binding/bagging) is so very hot.

Some of it I'm sure is inexperience and not really knowing what they want or how to ask for it and deal with it. But my understanding of my fantasy is keen perhaps because real would be so extreme? Maybe? Some of the lesser scenes might not be so easily understandable in that full context.