Assuming you're reaching out to providers who're still advertising that they're currently seeing people, I'd guess you're getting less of a response due to people being generally more depressed and lethargic. A lot of Dommes who rent my space have expressed they're just not "in the mood" to do anything, especially sessions. The scene by me still seems somewhat active, obviously not nearly as much as pre-covid but it's definitely not dead.
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