Here’s my issue with being dressed up. I am comfortable in my looks. Late 50’s, 5’11” 180lbs. Still have all my hair and not gray yet.
You get me all dressed up. Put on some makeup and you are proud of your work. You move me to a mirror to look at my sissy self and the first thing that comes to my mind is, I look like my sisters. Just not comfortable going there.
For me Strapon is where I go because it is outside of my everyday. I like it and it seems the Domme does also. Although many Dommes will cater to it today I look for ones who truly enjoy it. If I get the feeling a Domme will do it but is not into it I look elsewhere.