Congrats on finding a wonderful Domme. Sounds like the two of you connect very well. I'm glad to hear that she is helping you accept your inner slut. ;-)

When it comes to penises, it is great that women can choose the size, color and the time they want them strap them on or not be bothered with them. Women get to control their penises. Men do not. Women have both their natural lady parts and optional strap on parts to work with. I've never thought about it like this before, but, perhaps that is part of the fascination with strap on play. Two aces in one hand.