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Usually, a Dominant is blending the needs of both into the scene. Contrary to what you may think, it's not just about you getting served, it's about the needs of all scene participants. If you just want someone to just "serve" you, then you don't want a Dominant.


I didn't mean that. I mean that if I join a domina for a master/slave session, I am the slave and she is the master during the session. When it ends there's some time for post care where we are equal again until the next session.

Obviously if we don't think about this all the time it will give another high aspect to the session. I mean King of Thailand might see a domina and get used extremely during the session but out of the session he is the king again.