This is a mostly duplicate of a post I have posted in the lobby, but it specifically relates to the ftt topic, as many have this as a limit, but change it for some dommes.

Some subs have a limit about how much pain they will take or if they will have a safeword during corporal punishment or whipping. Other subs, maybe most have a limit against scat in the mouth or scat at all.

So the question is either for dommes or subs. If you are a sub and you had these limits, and then you either changed them or let them be overcome or pushed, how did it happen?

If you are domme, have you persuaded some subs to drop or change their limit, or did it seem to happen naturally?

There are what seem to be dozens of short posts here on fisch or domina or in the blogs of some dommes of guys who had "limit A" and who decided to change or drop "limit A" after a few sessions.

Or, in a session, the sub was so impressed and happy with the domme that he gave her permission in any future sessions to push past what had been his limits and he was agreeing to drop them for her.

One story on a blog is of a domme who banished a guy from seeing her for several months for him to think about his limit or his pushiness and he actually did come back to see her again after a year, though the limit in his case was not scat but his attitude to a corporal punishment.

Who has a story to tell? How and why did you change your limit, or stop listing it on the application forms? Or, how did you begin to want to see dommes who would violate or push your limits?