How cool is that subspace starts the minute you start thinking about a session...getting your nerve up to make the call. That is so much fun. You are fortunate to have seen such wonderful doms, like the legendary Belle de Jour. When I marched in the bdsm section of the pride parade in NYC about 20 years go, along side Mistress Mir and Leslie Savage, I knew it was fun and special. But, I didn't realize what an incredible experience it was that would be a precious place in time for the scene that not everyone would get to have.