Getting to subspace is very important to me, and I typically get there very quickly. There are several things that can trigger subspace for me, but the fastest is most effective is for the Domme to simply put her hands on me and look me right in the eyes at the beginning of the session. That eye to contact just sends me right over the edge. My mind immediately goes blank and my breathing slows down right away, the only thing that matters to me is getting lost in her eyes. At that point, I just buckle up and enjoy the ride. Also, if during the session she wants to push me, she knows that all she has to do is look into my eyes again and I will do all I can to handle whatever she has in mind. I call it getting to a mind space that is "gooey", where nothing else exists but her and what she is doing to me at that time. It's an amazing and cathartic experience when the chemistry is right.