It's all business to them. They realize some men truly believe it and other men obviously know that men are physically stronger than women, but obviously I'm going to choose a domme who at least presents/gives the illusion that she embraces the superiority role. Obviously I would not want to see a woman who expresses she is not confident playing the role of a dominant, but will do it anyways/try it.

I basically already know what I am paying to pick the menu of items that will take place, can put in an attire request (never cared much about the attire though), and generally have a good say in the session time.