Not because I'm a sub overwhelmingly in session, but I agree with Cheyenne and Spark on the subject. I was actually thinking about this a couple of weeks ago, when I was reminiscing about my past "adventures."

For me I have the confidence to be a sub. Over the decades I've had sessions they have been with traditional Dominas, female bodybuilders and what best can be called "kinky escorts" for want of a better phrase. All were in control and all were dominant. (In a couple of very rare cases I became as switch as a natural part of the session with ladies I knew well.)

In analyzing my alter ego and my kinks in session, I like being an exhibitionist for one Mistress, if that makes sense. With two Dominas I know very well we did limited public play on the waterfront, parking garages, hotel stairways. In the past decade or so I put myself in the frame of mind as I go to a sessions that the dominant woman who I will me has hired me as HER entertainment.

So I think you have to be strong and confident to be a submissive, and willing to be open to new possibilities.