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#11537 - 08/09/20 12:57 PM
Re: Doms who Switch
[Re: Cheyenne]
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The Amazon Princess/Tarzan role play sounds like so much fun!!! It also makes me wonder if the switching was in the context of such a scenario that it would not effect the way she looks at her "Daddy." Hmmmm.... "Daddy" hits the nail on the head. The first Mistress was I did this with was in her late 20s, I was in my late 40s, so the age difference was in play. Tarzan is the age of the Princess' father and "Daddy" sent Tarzan to the rescue. The Princess always had a crush on Tarzan, so when they set up camp the Amazon taunts, teases him into submission. With my role play, and its variations, I always describe it as a "R-rated 1950s B-movie," if there were such things back then. I would also say the whole BDSM experience for me is like Disney World for adults.
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#11538 - 08/09/20 01:08 PM
Re: Doms who Switch
[Re: Swordfish]
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[quote] I have always fantasized about doing a scene with two women where there's one domme who is dominant over both of us, but both women are dominant over me I've been lucky to do that a few times, mostly with a Mistress and someone she was training. Usually half the session was the three of us and then the second half the trainee left and the Mistress took over. In one epic session "Tarzan" was used by two experienced dominant women into kink, dressed in leopard print. For me, in all those cases, it was like having too much ice cream. Enjoyable? Sure, but too distracting, almost overwhelming.
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#11539 - 08/09/20 09:56 PM
Re: Doms who Switch
[Re: Cheyenne]
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Registered: 07/08/16
Posts: 1048
Loc: Detroit
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Cheyenne,
Generically, my answer is that it wouldn't but in reality it is really all about the dynamics of their relationship and more importantly the mind of the sub herself. This is especially true if the sub is not bisexual but being involved in this triangle means kneeling to another woman.
Personally, as a switch who owns a sub I have some experience with this type of situation. Although my sub has never seen me play as a sub, I have introduced her to a few of my Dommes and even had her do service for them (not kinky play, more using some real-life skills she has). She has seen how they talk to and treat me as well as how I refer to and treat them even in the private conversations between the sub and myself (I admit that I also use this as teaching moments for her so that she learns by example how to act properly in her role). I know that her seeing me actively kneel in play wouldn't affect her view of me in the least as compared to seeing me jump to get them something in the same way she usually does for me.
From the sub side of things, I know that many of my Dommes are switches or subs in their regular life and have even had conversations about ways to interact with their partner. I have had a couple of them actually decide to switch with me during a session (this never works out for me as I always view them as my Domme even if I am momentarily in charge).
In my mind, the transitive property doesn't even apply as the nature of their relationship with someone else has no bearing on my relationship with the person. Just because my Domme chooses to kneel to another person doesn't mean that I automatically do so unless specifically ordered to by my Domme (in which case, I am still serving my Domme's wishes rather than the 2nd person).
The one situation that your friend should definitely negotiate with any Domme he brings in to play with is about his relationship with his sub. Regardless of the Domme's wishes, he must always be in charge of the well-being of his sub and the Domme must bend to his wishes (without penalty) if he ever objects to any instruction she gives. Also, I would add a hard limit to the Domme bringing his sub into play in a manner to help dominate him (it is natural for the Domme to go for the extra humiliation of having his sub spank or beat him during the session but THAT is something that can definitely muck up the dynamics of their relationship).
Finally, I apologize if others have said some of this earlier in the thread. I am responding to the original post and have not read the other replies before posting this answer. Hope it helps some.
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#11540 - 08/09/20 11:16 PM
Re: Doms who Switch
[Re: Cheyenne]
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Regular
Registered: 06/22/20
Posts: 195
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Unless cuckolding or bi sexual activity was part of the scene, I can relate to where you are coming from. In all of the years I've had my websites, I've never filmed a couple subbing to a Domintrix. That would be hot. Maybe under the guise of alternative marriage counseling? That kind of stuff is hot. One of my favorite porn scenes to jerk off to is a dominant woman dominating a couple at the same time. The problem is that there are only about three or so clips out there of this type of content and I think there should be a lot more. I hope this type of scene explodes in popularity because I want new material to view.
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#11542 - 08/10/20 05:45 AM
Re: Doms who Switch
[Re: Cheyenne]
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Registered: 10/19/15
Posts: 120
Loc: Tampa, Florida
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Last night I had an interesting conversation with a long time friend about his moving his subbie girl in with him. He is more on the submissive side of the play fence than dominant but, he likes it all. I raised the question how it would go for their Master/subbie girl relationship if she saw him switch. In a perfect world, they could have a Dom friend over and top both of them when the mood strikes. But, we were both skeptical if it would change the dynamics of their relationship if she saw him play slave for the evening. What are your thoughts? If you saw your Dom switch, would it put you off? Very much. I don't see women who stitch publicly. What they do in the privacy of their own home or dungeon doesn't bother me.
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#11543 - 08/10/20 01:17 PM
Re: Doms who Switch
[Re: AspX]
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Pooh-Bah
Registered: 07/12/19
Posts: 2303
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This is great insight and advise! I will pass this along. Thank you so much for sharing this.
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#11544 - 08/10/20 01:25 PM
Re: Doms who Switch
[Re: cbtlover]
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Pooh-Bah
Registered: 07/12/19
Posts: 2303
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While I've always been totally accepting of what other people want to do, it has bothered me to see men top women. I will never forget being at the HellFire Club when a pot belly man who looked like he had no respect for himself was whipping the heck out of a cute young lady. I had to walk away. It was not my business what the two of them enjoyed. It just seemed abusive to me in a way that was uncomfortable. I will say the exception to male top/ fem sub, is when it is benevolent. Two of my long ago friends were such a couple. When they did shows, it was obvious that his goal was to bring her erotic satisfaction. He was protective over her. It was a cool dynamic they had going on. It would still probably blow the fantasy for a lot of men who see the lady of their interest only as a top. But, I respected, that he seemed to be serving her more than the other way around.
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#11547 - 08/10/20 10:57 PM
Re: Doms who Switch
[Re: Cheyenne]
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Registered: 10/26/15
Posts: 341
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I admire people who take or who can take punishment.
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#11548 - 08/11/20 04:51 AM
Re: Doms who Switch
[Re: ztrade]
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Pooh-Bah
Registered: 07/12/19
Posts: 2303
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Thanks for you input. That is an interesting perspective. Ironically, I spoke with an other friend today who has done a lot of fem/fem videos with her as the submissive. She shot for ClubDom, as a top, recently and had a blast. She had been flirting with going into prodomming for a while and the shoot cemented her decision. She is wondering if people will take her seriously because of her fem/fem sub videos. She is so pretty and kinky that I do not think it will hold her back. Your perspective will be encouraging to her. I will pass it along.
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#11549 - 08/11/20 05:02 AM
Re: Doms who Switch
[Re: John_Bolton]
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Pooh-Bah
Registered: 07/12/19
Posts: 2303
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I will try to shoot something like that. The pirate/tube sites really took a chunk out of our shooting budget. In the last 5 or 6 years, pirates have made more money from my content than I have. But, with so many of my friends being home bound right now...and these friends being play partners in real life, I might be able to pull together a pretty cool movie.
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