57, I agree with you about the late ‘90s, early 2000s era. I was on Fetlife.com three, four years ago, not now, and the Empress is in Florida and was then active on a limited basis I think. Mistress Persephone was a piece of work. Second of three sessions, an 11 pm or so appt, and she really slapped me around when when she broke a nail doing something to me. LOL! I checked in the last year or so and she moved back to California and may still be active.

In that late ‘90s / early 2000s period NYC was great but I always thought SF was a great hub too. Classic Dominas. As for Florida, the Tampa area, the west coast, is a Mecca for female bodybuilders, many who are dominant. Also plenty of traditional Dominas there. I never played there, just what I’ve seen online and the bodybuilders from there I played with in NYC. Miami was hot too. But all my memories - most recent - are before February this year, pre-Covid 19 times. Don’t know first hand what’s going on now.