I had never paid a deposit til this year. But the two dommes were from the same group that I had a session with someone from before in LA, so I was okay with it. It was $100 deposit and the session was $300 total cost. With one, I did pay via cash app using a different email for anonymity, but for the second person, I checked and asked if I could send an Amazon gift card. I can buy these in store and send the card info via email, so I like being able to remain anonymous. It's very important.

I am more okay now with paying a deposit because it means i'll actually show up and won't make the mistake of jerking off too close to the session time and backing out/losing interest. I'm surprised they all don't charge deposits.