There are two Prodoms that I am interested to session with but the deposit seems somewhat risky on their behalf. One wants 50% and another wants the entire session prepaid through cash app or Venmo. Receiving $300 or $600 through one of these apps must cause red flags.

Wanted to see what others have seen

The amounts themselves -- 50% or pre-pay in full -- aren't necessarily unusual at this point, but I would be wary if the Domme is new or unknown.

You're right in that those processors are a risk because they both are explicitly anti-adult. Whether that amount causes a red flag is hard to say. I really have no idea what the average transaction is or how often people send those amounts, so it's possible it doesn't send a flag.

I have never used Venmo, but I have used Cash. Cash's deposit into your account is immediate. So, in theory, even if the amount was flagged, it should still hit her account and not held by Cash or be lost in some digital space.

If you have personal concerns, you could also ask if there are any other options.

Personally I ask for 20% deposit, but everyone's different.

Look through their websites, their social medias, etc and google them. Really do your research and then make the call.

I have been able to avoid deposits because I have been doing this long enough to have acquired some very Domme references.

However, I would not object to a Domme's request for a reasonable deposit and 20% is certainly a very reasonable request. I can't imagine any serious and well intentioned client objecting to that deposit requirement. That's very reasonable, especially for a Domme with your experience and reputation.

I had never paid a deposit til this year. But the two dommes were from the same group that I had a session with someone from before in LA, so I was okay with it. It was $100 deposit and the session was $300 total cost. With one, I did pay via cash app using a different email for anonymity, but for the second person, I checked and asked if I could send an Amazon gift card. I can buy these in store and send the card info via email, so I like being able to remain anonymous. It's very important.

I am more okay now with paying a deposit because it means i'll actually show up and won't make the mistake of jerking off too close to the session time and backing out/losing interest. I'm surprised they all don't charge deposits.

I charge a small deposit, $50 per booked hour. I use Cash App, Amazon gift card, or Visa/ Mastercard gift card. I have had many clients want to pay the entire tribute via Cash App, and it never causes a problem on either end. I regularly receive over $500 payments on Cash App, and I have never been "red flagged". I love Cash App!

If Cashapp is free, what is the hidden cost? I don't think someone like Jack Dorsey just creates an app like that out of the kindness of his nonexistent heart. What is he using the data for?

50% is enough higher than everyone else asks, that I'd go back and really really make sure I did my homework that this domme is legit. 100% deposit is probably a complete non-starter for me.

Separately, lots of people doing transfers through these apps without issue. Just make sure the memo doesn't say something like, "deposit for my sex session with a professional sexworker" and it'll be fine, IME 🤣

You can figure on $50 per hour or 25% of the total as deposit is pretty much standard. No complaints from me.

If a person has no references I will charge up to 30% of the session fee. As others have said, always make sure who you are dealing with is reputable prior to sending anything.



I depends on the history of both parties. If it's the first transaction or two for either party they will likely block anything over $200, but you won't lose your money. The transaction will simply be cancelled. When I first started using both apps I had some difficulty with this, but only in the beginning. Once I had a few lesser transaction under my belt everything started going though just fine even with higher amounts.