Thank You Mistress, I don't know if I can go that far. I try to avoid slave activities that require a trip to the emergency room and a long explanation about why it should be covered by my health insurance.

I never went to Belle's. I was however intrigued by her live shows and considered going to one of them until I found out that she used TV's to perform in them. That just wasn't my thing.

That's a good one!

I've really given this some more thought over the past several days or so and one recurring thought that keeps coming back to me is simply the idea of just being an object for my Mistress to use as she so desires for her own pleasure and enjoyment .... to simply surrender myself completely and whole-heartedly within the confines of any pre-determined hard limits.

I'll admit that in my very first few sessions ever, it was more about the fetishes/kinks that I enjoyed .... but as I've (hopefully) grown and progressed, I've come to the realization that true submission is not about a checklist of things I like and dislike but is actually about surrendering my will and my body to my Mistress. To me, that would be an over-the-top session.

Aren't we that already?




Couldn't have said it better myself!

I wish there were more sploshers...

Sploshing looks like fun to me, but I never saw anything kinky in it.

We had one splosher at a Violent Fems Girl Gang party, but I don't think he was a serious fetishist, just in it for the humiliation. I had a long term client who liked to watch me eat, which is related, but not precisely the same. That is more of a "feeding" fetish technically.

It's kinky if seeing people sit in food turns you on, IMO.

Yah to me it always looked fun like playing slip-and-slide, twister, or some other 1970s Milton Bradley game.

Your explanation of it being a form of humiliation makes me see why it could be a kink for some people.

Personally, I'm not into feeling humiliated, but I find many of the activities in kink circles that are designed to induce that to be fun or kinky. I guess if the domme was a humilatrix she wouldn't get much out of it as she wouldn't see those emotions in my face. Sort of like a sadist wearing her arms out hitting someone who doesn't make a peep.

Well, yeah ....... kinda' ..... I suppose .... to an extent.

I am a big fan of machines.

My ideal over-the-top session would involve 2 dommes placing me in tight bondage with:
* breath control with an external ventilator
* a milking machine (Serious Kit, Venus 2k, or a Trembler)
* a fucking machine
* estim

I've tried those things individually, I'd love to try them all at once.

I've started saving up.