Sounds about right.

They don't like themselves for their kinks, and they transfer that dislike to dommes.

Throw in some more resentment for the unconscious idea that "If I like something I am entitled to it" and not being able to get as much as they want.

Then there is the stereotype based in truth that subs tend to be decision makers in their jobs. At least in the past guys like that tended to be conservative, which carried some misogyny along with it, as well an inability to handle women who are their equals/superiors.