Great question. I was skeptical myself going in. The first session involved a wooden spoon, was ok but didnt really work well for me personally. For the second session, We improvised a bit and used a billiards ball in a tube sock which made for a crazy fun session actually. There also were quite a few rubber bands involved. As mentioned, personally virtual wouldn’t be my first choice, but I was surprised how well it worked. Having a Domme who I sessioned with before in person I think helped, I think would be weird as a first session. I’m sure various kinks/activities transfer over to virtual better than others though.