Yeah, agree there is a lot of criteria to examine and it can be very subjective.

I used to travel globally every week and would see a Domme in each region I went to frequently.

The key characteristics I was looking for was:
- Trust
- Someone I can engage with that understands what makes me tick
- Based on that analysis push my buttons, expand my boundaries mentally and physically
- I was not really into the scripted scenarios or where I had to describe immense detail of a scene, I want the scene to be created for me and the experience to unfold organically.
- Diverse range of experience (I am not a rinse repeat type of person)
- But ability to explore depth in each area explored (I don't want a superficial experience)
- Adjustable demeanor (can be cruel/demanding, but sweet and affectionate when necessary)

To me that person was Domina Dia Dynasty (www.dominadynasty.com) in New York City.

I am just thrilled by the depth I was able to establish here and adjusted my schedule to see her on a regular basis accordingly.