It most assuredly would not be (and is not) my preference either. There is simply no comparison between the online/distance stuff versus actually being in the presence of your Mistress ... or at least for me there isn't, I should say. I could certainly understand if there are some that prefer it ... after all, everyone is different. What makes my wheels spin isn't necessarily going to do it for someone else.

I like what you said there about it being like foreplay ... that's a good way of looking at it. And yes ... yes you do have a lot of frustrated subs out here.