I hear you. My Mistress wanted to video chat and I passed on it due to really no privacy for that activity. Be we have a long history with texting, which can get intense with us. What’s the expression? “Necessity is the mother of invention.” Or something like that.

I 100% agree and I think as time goes on it will only get worse. Already I am starting to get desensitised by the news and don't read as much about the situation so that doesn't fill my time anymore and what's left are all the things I am missing: sessions, eating in a real restaurant, getting my nails done, going to the gym, sessions and sessions . . . well, you get the point.

Yup, i have fallen victim to the restlessness of isolation and turned toward more attention to online kink. Wouldn't now be a good time to seek out a Mistress you trust and ask: What is Your fantasy Mistress and how can i fulfill it without being in Your presence? Worth a shot, huh?

I said earlier that phone sex was going to increase. To bad we can’t buy stock on the market. It was a no brained plus a way to supplement the income during a slow time.

Yes, I agree that it was an obvious move. There is one complication: many people are in lockdown with their families and it's tough to find "alone time" for a call. As a stop gap measure I have started offering email domination and it's actually more fun that I thought.

Right now I have a forced fem roleplay unfolding, a nephew that needs the hand of a strong woman to keep him in line during this time of inactivity and a pain slut that needs bi-weekly assignments just because . . . It's made me have to think outside of the box and I like the mental exercise.

Yes, that is the same thing I am hearing from a lot of my regulars on both Niteflirt and Adult Work. They are literally climbing the walls because they're horny af but with wives and kids around, they can't break away to indulge.

I've been teasing some of them that this is the ulitamte form of chastity or tease & denial. They want it so bad, but can't have it!

But also like you, I've been coming up with creative solutions to get around that.

The stock market these days is excellent Tease & Denial. Down 1000 points one day, up 1000 points the next.

My own stress leads directly to sessions. I want to feel those cuffs locking and that gag jerked into my mouth and hear someone softly but decisively say, "Kneel, slut."

At the end of long projects, the need is particularly acute. My daily faux alpha routine gets to be too much, and I badly need to surrender to someone who won't take less than full submission and knows that's what I need too.

But it's not my own stress now. Not yet anyway. This general sorrow includes me but isn't mine to address. If that makes any sense.

Soon enough though I'll need it again though. I feel it building in a similar way. Trying to be in control where I have no business trying. Someone will need to shake me out of that. "Kneel, slut." Yes, Mistress....

Pain slut??? Well I neve ......... well, okay .... never mind.

Mistress Ayn never said YOU were the pain slut...you just owned up to it. Haha. We all knew it was you anyway.