Well-- to each his own. Although many women do have dominant tendencies from birth, some do not but go on to enjoy being dominant and become quite good at it. "Born This Way" or not, you still have to apprentice to someone who teaches you how to be technically proficient. So... is that submissive? I don't think so. Does it follow that if you are taught BDSM - in practice, professionally- does not involve overt sexuality and you follow that rule, that you are submissive to that idea? I don't think that is necessarily so.


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