Hi Chi61. Like you, for me live sessions are king. I have been on NiteFlirt for a number of years but mainly took calls there by appointment and mainly with subs I already knew. I did learn early on that a lot of people just want to chat about normal stuff, discuss their kinks, etc in a very casual way and I use NiteFlirt maily for that. I have a lower priced line set up for those type of calls.

The whole, "now grab your balls and hit them" is a bit awkward (I guess that is the word) for me, since I am accustomed to grabbing balls myself. But with the current limitations it's better than nothing. I do find it more realistic with cam so I can see what's happening and offer better direction.

I would suggest just sticking your toe in the water and make your first call an informal chat to get to know the person and see if you mesh. That will make it easier for both of you to proceed with real remote domination.