Boots, gloves, foot jewelry....whatever it may be, do you notice this in public? There have been times that I've seen ladies so decked out with fetish items that I have to wonder if they are aware of it. Once in a while, I will catch the secret smile on their face when someone notices and, think..."Oh yeah....she is one of us."

What attire do you notice in vanilla settings?

I notice all of the above.

Many of those things are provocative in vanilla land as well so I am not sure if the vanilla women wearing them are getting a kick out of sending "Am I kinky or not?" signals.

It doesn't happen much this time of year.

Fall seems to be the season for boots, tights, faux leather jackets, etc.

As far as collars and bdsm jewelry go I've only ever noticed *very) young Goth women wearing those out in public.

Yes, it is usually young, Goth ladies in the corsets and collars. But, foot jewelry is becoming common in coastal areas. It used to be difficult to find. Now it is sold at vendor stands, pretty much everywhere. Maybe I'm a weirdo for thinking that toe rings and ankle bracelets are fetish related. Regardless, I dig it as much as I do gloves and boots in the colder months. I could be wrong about this, but the ladies wearing what may be considered fetish clothing have to be enjoying the affect it has on men. As a third person spectator, I get a kick out of seeing men get whiplash over walking by a woman with a perfect pedicure and ankle bracelet.

I’m easy... and oh so typical. Backless high heels, especially open toe models. The ladies that wear them with a short shirt or dress with no stockings know EXACTLY what they are doing. (And women wearing them & tight shorts.) Also big hoop earrings. And animal print tops, especially tight fitting tops or ones with spaghetti straps.

As I said... so typical for my role play. LOL!

I guess I haven't been lucky. I've not noticed fetish wear in public, BUT this question got me to thinking about a somewhat related topic I think I'll start a conversation about.

OMG! You could have done the wardrobe for my websites back when there was a profit margin in the business. I totally love every item you just mentioned. And, yes....a woman doesn't dress that way if she doesn't know the affect. Maybe a few do. But, trust me...we come to understand it quickly even if it starts out innocently enough.

I look forward to your new thread. In the meantime, what do you consider fetish wear? Maybe Junglebeast and I are just the freaks of freaks. ;-)

LOL! What's the line? "Men like bright shiny things." The whiplash effect - no pun intended! Yeah, I'm as guilty as any other male.

(P.S. - You wouldn't want to send me one... maybe two pic of you in such clothing. Yes... I did cross another line. Never mind.)

LOL!

I guess when I first read this thread, that is what I was thinking...seeing someone out and about wearing a collar or decked out in leather.

As for what I notice, in the past year it has been boots - especially knee high leather boots, or even combat boots. Fall and winter were very tough.