Yup, I completely understand. I've known my Mistress since the late '90s, saw her off and on over the years. A couple of times she moved out of NYC. The past five years she's been the only one. It got to me I didn't hear a thing from her. I'm glad she's okay and got in touch.

On the other hand I served an NYC domina named Mistress Melora from the mid '90s until the mid '00s, off and on. After one rough patch we became close, friendly. I had an appointment one day and before she started she offered me a vintage spirit of some type. We toasted each other and she told me she was leaving NY to move to North Carolina, if I remember correctly, to take care of her ailing father and was getting out of the scene. We had a wonderful session, really a memorable send off for both of us. At that time I never saved any email or phone info after a session. I've thought of her over the years, wanting to at least email to see how she was doing. But... She did say a sincere, classy goodbye. I can live with that and hope she is well.