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#14561 - 05/22/21 07:59 AM Too Old?
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The "Too young" thread over on Maxfisch got me thinking about the other side of that question.

What is "Too old"? is there an age?....for a Domme?....for a sub?

In terms of Dommes About 10-15 years ago I played with a semi retired Domme up in mid coast Maine who I believe had been quite well known in the Boston area in the late 70's, 80's and 90's. I have no idea of her age at the time but I suspect maybe 50's (she had allowed her hair to go naturally grey).(EDIT Her website is long gone bur I found her profile on Fetlife and she gives her age as 65....still looks great!}
She was trim,fit and quite beautiful. The session was one of the better ones that I have experienced and included just about the best transition from pre-session chatting into play mode that I have ever enjoyed.

I certainly know as a sub of a "certain age" some activities are no longer on the menu due to joint issues and steadily declining flexibility frown but the urge to play is as strong as ever.

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#14569 - 05/23/21 01:35 AM Re: Too Old? [Re: furfan]
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I started the "too young" thread on MaxFisch and I've had too much wine and it's pretty late... so here goes. What I meant was, who is "too young" to session with if you are a sub or a Domina? I'm over 60 now. There is no way I'd session with a Domina under 35... maybe 40. Love 'em but I can't session with ladies the age of my daughters or nieces. Just me. Having another sip of vino and going to bed. LOL! Bye.

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#14574 - 05/23/21 07:14 AM Re: Too Old? [Re: furfan]
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Originally Posted By furfan
The "Too young" thread over on Maxfisch got me thinking about the other side of that question.

What is "Too old"? is there an age?....for a Domme?....for a sub?

In terms of Dommes About 10-15 years ago I played with a semi retired Domme up in mid coast Maine who I believe had been quite well known in the Boston area in the late 70's, 80's and 90's. I have no idea of her age at the time but I suspect maybe 50's (she had allowed her hair to go naturally grey).(EDIT Her website is long gone bur I found her profile on Fetlife and she gives her age as 65....still looks great!}
She was trim,fit and quite beautiful. The session was one of the better ones that I have experienced and included just about the best transition from pre-session chatting into play mode that I have ever enjoyed.

I certainly know as a sub of a "certain age" some activities are no longer on the menu due to joint issues and steadily declining flexibility frown but the urge to play is as strong as ever.


I've been fortunate to have some great older clients. It's nice to play with subs who've been sessioning longer than I've been alive. wink I'm also glad to see Mistresses my grandmother's age still going strong.

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#14575 - 05/23/21 07:23 AM Re: Too Old? [Re: furfan]
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Are you referring to Mistress Papillon?

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#14581 - 05/23/21 03:44 PM Re: Too Old? [Re: furfan]
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Some additional comments, if I may. In my thread on maxfisch I mentioned my first Mistress was over 50 (after checking her bios online recently) and I was 20. The Mistress was the legendary Belle de Jour of Manhattan. Whenever I re-entered the scene, and I did that a lot from the '70s to the '90s I'd either try to have a session with her (it happened a couple of times in the mid-'80s) or follow her recommendations of ladies working for her. I trusted Belle.

One late Saturday morning in the early '90s I called her dungeon and was surprised to hear her voice. I hadn't seen her in several years. I immediately asked Bell to session with me. Belle said no, but to come in because she had someone for me. About an hour later I was there and she looked great. I kinda charmed my way into having her session with me. I was 40 or so, she had to be 70 and Belle was as hot as ever.

It is true that age is a number. But I have a thing about not sessioning with women under 35 or 40.

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#14582 - 05/23/21 08:01 PM Re: Too Old? [Re: Cheyenne]
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Originally Posted By Cheyenne
Are you referring to Mistress Papillon?


Yes, I sessioned with her at her place in Maine about 10-12 years ago..........had a great experience.

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#14583 - 05/24/21 06:29 AM Re: Too Old? [Re: furfan]
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We were probably in New England around the same time. I had a studio in Rhode Island back then. Papillion was very well thought of in the local scene. I still remember her DDI ads. How time flies when you are having fun!

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#14584 - 05/24/21 07:29 AM Re: Too Old? [Re: furfan]
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Maybe I'm a perv, but I could either way on this. It depends on the experience I'm looking for at the moment.

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#14588 - 05/24/21 01:44 PM Re: Too Old? [Re: junglebeast]
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I don't really have a hard and fast rule on younger Dommes but given my preference for lots of gear, great studio space and a certain reputation most of the people I play with tend to be well established and thus of a certain age.

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#14591 - 05/24/21 10:19 PM Re: Too Old? [Re: furfan]
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Until recently Ive always sessioned with someone close to my age. Its gotten harder as i got older.

I now just session with one person and she is significantly younger. We get along very well. I guess age is just a number.

I hope i never get too old to session.

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