hope I’m not coming across as defensive. I just found it interesting and for me, in this particular case helpful.

[quote=Chi61]What if the interview session doesn't go well? Would you have the fortitude to walk out, and will they refund you your deposit? I think I know the answers to those questions ("probably not" and "no"), but it's more to highlight that you're taking on an awful lot (clearing your day, getting ready, driving to and from, and of course the $deposit) with a decently high risk (if you're very particular) of wasting it all, when a couple of simple emails could have established compatibility. In addition, many pro dommes tell me they plan out their sessions in advance, or at least have a basic plan -- do you think you gave them enough info (beyond just an interest list) that they could do that?

I can see where it would be super efficient to do it that way, but it also seems a little impersonal. I like some interaction with a new submissive before we meet.