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#8207 - 11/15/19 05:35 AM Re: American Bizarre Ladies? [Re: Mistress Ayn]
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Originally Posted By Mistress Ayn
I agree. It would be nice to differentiate. Right now I think the closest we have is kinky escort but you seldom see that term used.

I think you said you spent time in England (I might have that wrong). When I visited there I was told that the word Dominatrix implied full service, where any other term, like Mistress, ProDomme, etc just meant BDSM services only. I found this very confusing.


Interesting, I've never heard Dominatrix used to denote full service. Our wacky friends in Merrie Olde England, do and say many things peculiarly. That, and their other irritating habits is the reason we through them out! grin
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#8298 - 11/19/19 10:43 AM Re: American Bizarre Ladies? [Re: MsRoseWoods]
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Being from England I'd say you were wrong about Dominatrix implying full service - I've been on the UK scene for over 20 years and genuinely that is the first time I've heard that so id take it with a pinch of salt

That said we do have some annoying habits and I'm stuck between being a grammar Nazi and a good little shit eater but having thought it through I'm pretty sure you threw us out

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#8300 - 11/19/19 05:44 PM Re: American Bizarre Ladies? [Re: Human_toilet]
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Originally Posted By Human_toilet
Being from England I'd say you were wrong about Dominatrix implying full service - I've been on the UK scene for over 20 years and genuinely that is the first time I've heard that so id take it with a pinch of salt

That said we do have some annoying habits and I'm stuck between being a grammar Nazi and a good little shit eater but having thought it through I'm pretty sure you threw us out


Human_toilet, I never said Dominatrix implied Full Service in the UK.

I was in a hurry and made a grammatical error. Contact Admin and recommend that my moderator status be revoked!

I'm a busy woman who takes time from my day to interact on this board. I don't have to, no one pays me.

This type of passive aggressive B.S. is one of the reasons the Hang is so nasty!
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#8306 - 11/20/19 12:13 AM Re: American Bizarre Ladies? [Re: Human_toilet]
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First of all, human toilet, I was the one that had the question about the term Dominatrix in England, not Ms. Rose Woods. Second, correcting a Domme on word usage on a Domme board seems petty and passive aggressive. Maybe you should spend your time and energy policing Twitter where many don't seem to know the difference between to, too and two. The ladies here spend considerable time conversing civilly to subs that care to engage civilly in exchanges that are longer than a sound bite. There will be an occasional grammatical error. We don't need a grammar Nazi.
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#8322 - 11/20/19 11:46 AM Re: American Bizarre Ladies? [Re: Mistress Ayn]
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Originally Posted By Mistress Ayn
First of all, human toilet, I was the one that had the question about the term Dominatrix in England, not Ms. Rose Woods. Second, correcting a Domme on word usage on a Domme board seems petty and passive aggressive. Maybe you should spend your time and energy policing Twitter where many don't seem to know the difference between to, too and two. The ladies here spend considerable time conversing civilly to subs that care to engage civilly in exchanges that are longer than a sound bite. There will be an occasional grammatical error. We don't need a grammar Nazi.


Two things: First is that this board is far and away more civil than MaxFisch during most of its life. (It has improved in recent years I guess, based on its record in the early days.) Second, everyone needs what is known as a copy editor. Social media has made that a quaint term. Even websites of established news outlets need copy editors. We all need to be a bit more understand if someone makes a grammatical mistake or typo. (ESPECIALLY if it is a sub trying to correct a Mistress. LOL!)

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#8324 - 11/20/19 12:53 PM Re: American Bizarre Ladies? [Re: junglebeast]
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I totally disagree. I don't need a copy editor. The microsecond posting becomes more like work than fun I'm gone.
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#8334 - 11/20/19 03:27 PM Re: American Bizarre Ladies? [Re: junglebeast]
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Originally Posted By junglebeast
ESPECIALLY if it is a sub trying to correct a Mistress.


A sub... Correct a Domme?!?

Nah.... Never happen around here... A mean, a sub would have to be a total freakin' idiot to put their ass on the line like that...


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#8356 - 11/21/19 02:44 AM Re: American Bizarre Ladies? [Re: AspX]
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I know of a handful of other Dominatrices who offer these services, Myself included.

I prefer to use the term Erotic Domination and it seems to have caught on as the phrase of choice. I am not a kinky escort so don't think that is the same thing at all- not that there's anything wrong with that, it's just a different type of experience. I'm a skilled and sadistic Dominatrix who is always in charge. I also enjoy using My sexuality to control and torment men.

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#8364 - 11/21/19 08:38 AM Re: American Bizarre Ladies? [Re: Princess Poison]
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Thanks for jumping in... I actually like your terminology much better.
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#8366 - 11/21/19 09:19 AM Re: American Bizarre Ladies? [Re: Princess Poison]
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Hello Princess Poison,

Welcome to the board.

Originally Posted By Princess Poison
I am not a kinky escort so don't think that is the same thing at all- not that there's anything wrong with that, it's just a different type of experience. I'm a skilled and sadistic Dominatrix who is always in charge. I also enjoy using My sexuality to control and torment men.


Using our sexuality to control and torment men is the essence of a Dominatrix. That's what we all do. A bizarre lady on the other hand offers oral contact and sometimes full service. Is that what the term "Erotic Domination" implies? Or am I missing something?

I would love for there to be a differentiation between the two but ideally it would be a clear term. Bizarre Lady is so unique that it begs the uninitiated to ask what it means. Erotic Domination sounds no different from Sensual Domination to me and I am not sure the average sub reading it would understand the offering - but like Maya Midnight said, the legalities in this country may always prevent that clarity.

If you feel comfortable elaborating here, please do.
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