As you know I have loved many Dommes but learned to walk that fine line. As I have grown I have learned to control that love as being more of a service, submission, and surrender love. I love all people but almost every Domme has helped me grow and now I think I have become a good slave. I love my Domme and the fact that She lets me be the real me and She enjoys torturing me, inflicting pain, and sometimes the feelings take me so high that it brings immense pleasure. Two very special Mistresses in Atlanta helped turn my life around and I will always love them for helping me grow and be better. I once thought I was "In Love" and that ended very badly but thankfully it ended and they are history. Now all my relationships are healthy. I serve them the way they wish to be served by me.

I am head over heels in love with my domme. She’s everything I could want or ask for in a woman. In my eyes she is perfection. Yes, I’d leave my wife and family if she ever said it’s a mutual thing. But, the realist in me realizes that it’s a one sided emotion and our age difference is huge

Like being always in love with your mistress, at all times, no matter who she is? Obviously not. But can it happen? It can, but it is not common. A mistress is still a person.

Of the two times a client professed he was in love with me, one turned in to a stalker and the other threatened suicide. No thanks! Now, saying you feel love for your Mistress is a different story. To feel an emotional bond with people you play with intimately on a regular basis is quite normal and a two way street.

i was very careful to avoid using the L word for quite a while as i became Mistress Ayn's slaveboy but "i adore You" was simply not adequate, so She hears over and over now that "i love You." But, it was good hear from Her, the last time we played, that: you know that the love a bottom feels for His top is different than what a top feels toward Her bottom. To me that is truly an important distinction. i know Mistress Ayn cares for me and She has expressed this in Her own unique way, but i think it makes Her feel good when i say i love You. She is still in control so it is not the mutual in love relationship and this works for U/us.