Yes certainly, height is a preference for a lot of women. However, it seems to me that many of women's preferences tend to be somewhat idiosyncratic ("I like the shape of his hands"), or other preferences that leave a lot of men perplexed.

Ehh, size doesn't matter when it's locked away in a cage

LOL so true

But what about when it's a target for torture?

Does bigger mean
... an easier target for a whip?
... more surface area for clamps?
... easier to bind?
... more nerve endings to send signals of pain?

Might smaller mean
... less in the way for ball busting?
... harder, and therefore more rewarding, target for a whip?

As a masochist, I'm especially curious about the opinions of the more sadistic among us.

When it comes to SPH, most of my clients/video slaves who where into this, were actually well endowed. I found that my clients/video slaves who were embarrassingly small, didn't seem to notice or, care. Have you seen this with your clients?

Hi Cheyenne,

I haven't really noticed them being particularly well endowed but I would say a lot of them are average, certainly not super small. Maybe if it's a reality it hits a little too close to home.

Your post reminded me of a hilarious story in Claudia Varin's book The Art of Sensual Female Dominance. She tells of a SPH session where she decides to start the session sporting a huge strapon only to find when the sub enters the room has an even larger member.

LOL. Great story.

I have noticed the same phenomenon. You have to be a first rate actress to pull off convincing SPH with a raging nine inch penis.

My lifestyle subs are a different group altogether. They tend to have below average penis size, three-five inches is common.


My most loyal, and faithful sub has a micropenis. The tiny thing actually retracts into his body, unless it's erect.

You have to be a first rate actress to pull off convincing SPH with a raging nine inch penis.

Yes. I've been there too. lol.

That's definitely not a trope or urban legend. Yes, I know the eclectic crowd I'm writing to, but in many cases a minimum height requirement is set in stone, for a partner.

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