Are your sure your brain isn't making a pledge your body can't keep?

You think of yourself as a senior sub/slut (whatever that means), but you've been out of it a while, it seems. Are you sure you're not out of practice? That your body hasn't changed? That your limits haven't diminished or your remembrance of your tolerances haven't grown with age and distance?

Seems like a recipe to get in over one's head.

And there are plenty of NE dommes you can do things that you dream, and things you don't know to dream. They have friends, equipment, and facilities that you may not know about. But you'll need to ask them, and be prepared to pay. But it saves a flight to Germany or Florida.

You are giving him a rude awakening.
It is something we all will experience but can't we dream in peace.
All the best,
wolf

I'm a NE Domme and I certainly fit the "great Mistress producer/director/choreographer with a vivid imagination' part. (I say that with all humility.) It's my "facilities" that may not fit an imagined expansive party-like atmosphere and the "other players to make it happen" that I definitely don't have. I think guys tend to think that all Dommes are friends and we hang out and always talk about what we want to do to all the mens.

My experience is that Dommes generally seem to want to have little to nothing to do with each other. It's mostly polite, superficial kinds of stuff.

So, those Domme parties are really wonderful opportunities if you want a multi-Domme experience, because for the average Domme, trying to coordinate that is probably very challenging, if not a pipedream.

Hi Mistress Tissa,

I guess we're lucky to have some "Event Planner" Dommes in Toronto. I've been gratified to be a supporter for some of the events that have been planned by Bastienne Cross, for instance, while getting my own "itch" scratched.

It is a side effect of my particular kink (and a decent budget) that Dommes are able to get together to shoot the shit (pun not intended!), while I "participate" as an object.

I'd certainly like for it to be the case that there is a raal Dominatrix Cabal of some sort, to both fight for legal rights, and allow for easy collaborations, but it stands to reason that actual Dominant people are likely to have strong personalities that won't necessary click with everyone.

po

Hi,

He should do it anyways! YOLO (with the proviso of do RACK play with EXPERIENCED Dommes)

I've been constantly "smashing" into hard limits that I didn't know I had, lately and it's been a learning experience and a part of my personal growth to do so.

po

Few among us would have thought to protect the original poster from cruel comments. Thanks, Wolf

A great facility filled with lots of bdsm people is an important ingredient for a Session of a Lifetime.

But, like many others I would rather live and learn from ONE SPECIAL DOMME than stand around with a crowd of others.

Mistress Tissa, please make any and all events YOU want to make. d

I don't want to rain on your parade, but I think that the secret to your success might be in limiting your expectations. Having a great session is quite possible and can be done with proper research and planning.

Having the session of your lifetime is a matter of chance. It depends on meeting the right person for you, it is all about chemistry and I am afraid that no amount of traveling or spending can substitute for that.

Agreed - having the session of anyone's lifetime is a matter of chance, but only those taking the highest number of chances have the highest likelihood of meeting the right person in the right circumstances for the chemistry to work.

Sure Don. But let's say you meet your dream person on the West Coast and have your lifetime session. What do you do next? Do you consider your lifetime over? Will you keep commuting to the West Coast?