It’s not uncommon for personals to be in relationships/married.

A few of the ones who serve/have served me were in relationships that were ‘open,’; others manage/d to compartmentalize the two arenas of their lives. Clear communication and availability on their part were negotiated.

MM

“Clear communication and availability were negotiated “

Thinking back on the opportunity that the Domme was trying to give me I wish I would have communicated more to her and not just given up. I’m pretty sure my thinking was I had to be all in with her original directions but she was a great Domme and a cool person and most likely would have worked with me. Unfortunate I felt like I’d failed her and just gave up thinking there’s no way I could have done it.

Sounds like you have a good relationship with your Domme going. My relationship with the Domme was similar to what you describe I don’t think we were quite as close. still miss her. She’s moved. We are in very occasional touch. I do wonder if she still working as a Domme part time or not.