There are many aspects to a great BDSM session with a skilled pro or partner that I love and look forward too. I'm curious as to what are some of your favourite points in a session?

One of mine is that 5-10 seconds after you knock or ring tne bell and then having the door swing open to reveal the Domme. The anticipation is delightful as you wait and that feeling of " Wow! the time is finally here" when the door opens is amazing.

Actually, I think a lot of the great parts of BDSM play is the anticipation.

I agree that anticipation is an important part of the experience but it starts at least a half hour in advance and builds.

Another one is the clacking of the heels. Often you have a pre session talk with the domme. Then she leaves the room and gives you instructions...perhaps take off your clothes and wait on your knees.

So you wait and then you hear her footsteps approaching. Again, with anticipation, you know that the woman who just had a nice, personal chat with you is going to return and be something quite different.

As a Domme, my favorite part is when I see a sub completely surrender and go into "subspace". The eyes completely change, their features soften. It's so cute, really gets me feral.

Great post.

I totally agree that anticipation is a valuable part of the actual session. I actually abstain for at least 30 days before sessioning. It really makes me "feel the part" as I go into session, making me very feminine, worked up, needy, horny, submissive, and obedient. No touching, playing, or jizzing (cumming) allowed!!! And its not chastity, it is self abstinence - so the mental side of it is very strong.

My mistress does not demand or command this. It is me. She likes that I do this, and often integrates into the play and session. Additional teasing and denial are often added to the extended period of time without stimulation.

So, I agree that anticipation is a favorite part of the the session. But, there is no substitute for being in the presence of the beautiful and skilled mistress. She knows exactly what buttons to push and when.

OMG!!! I can not wait until my next session. So, damn good!

XOXOXO - Celeste

I became a regular with a Mistress I was a regular with who I saw for six, seven years, maybe twice a year. We would speak occasionally on the phone, especially in the week or two before a session. My eagerness, I'll put it that way, and ask what we would do when we met. She said on more than one occasion, "Anticipation, my pet... Anticipation." Words to live by!

Another for me is that moment when the bondage is complete. The last buckle cinched tight, the last knot tied in a rope or the hood laces given a final tug to maximum tightness.

In those few seconds you realize first that you are helpless and under her power and then that the session is about to move to the next phase. What comes next? Will it be tease and frustration or an immediate application of discipline?

Waiting to find out is an amazing feeling......Lovely!

+1

I enjoy the anticipation and discovery of the new, but I enjoy even more meetings with dommes I’ve seen for years and years. My current mistress I’ve seen almost 15 years now. I love entering her space, shutting off the phone, knowing that for the next 3 hours we will engage in all manner of kinky activities but with the absolute security and comfort and safety of someone I trust completely. No stress, pure surrender and subjugation.

I’ve had 3 such very long-term mistress-sub relationships prior to this current one. I’ve been blessed.

furfan,

You absolutely nailed it. That moment when the bondage is in place, and and realizing that I am totally helplessness and vulnerable to whatever whims the Domme may have. It is a wonderfully warm feeling and I so love to embrace that feeling of complete surrender.

Love it!