In hopes in part of encouraging more discussion in this thread, i will add another book that i think is a great "intro to fem dom" read -- Princess Kali, "Enough to Make You Blush." About erotic humiliation but really so much more, about the psychology of power exchange and giving up dignity -- and about the ways in which two minds can find ways of interacting very intimately through intentional communication about desire, emotion, feeling. i would be curious if others have read this and found it as interesting as i did?