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#20984 - 05/27/24 10:03 AM Re: Only Fans [Re: palmer]
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Registered: 10/10/15
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With no offense nor disrespect meant to *anyone* I don't think findom devolved given where it started. If anything it was a de-evolution of professional femdom. To clarify, my earliest recollections of it, aside from Princess Sierra ( is she still around? ) is of prodommes specializing meeting clients long enough in person to take their money and then leaving. Perhaps throwing in some humiliation. The current form is not that much different. A few pictures of an attractive woman, some mean-girl text, and a command to send money for nothing in return.

No artistry, no non-monetary exchanges, just a cash app with a theme.

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#20985 - 05/27/24 10:04 AM Re: Fan Sites [Re: Domina M]
Soapy Offline
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Given my lackluster experience with OnlyFans so far, I will not be renewing my subscription. Hope that helps.

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#20986 - 05/27/24 10:30 AM Re: Fan Sites [Re: palmer]
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Registered: 10/30/15
Posts: 546
Loc: Paris, France
I would have to think about the old content. I really want to focus on education and being approachable. The couples I work with in person normally come to see me because the women feel they can relate to me. Most of the time it is me explaining that BDSM is a nice thing, not a mean one.

It's a total rush for me to see the light switch turn on with women playing with their partners--that special moment when they realize they can have fun and it's something their partner enjoys.
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#20987 - 05/27/24 10:35 AM Re: Fan Sites [Re: Soapy]
Domina M Online   content

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Loc: Paris, France
It does actually. I am so on the fence about this and which platform to use.

I don't like the Twitter-style feed either. I can't organize my content and I would still have to drive traffic to it from my other socials. It might be better to set up my own paywall on one of my sites
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#20988 - 05/27/24 01:44 PM Re: Fan Sites [Re: Domina M]
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In the last year or so I've seen several prodommes here talk about bad experiences with Only Fans.

https://i.redd.it/04g9gzn4dw451.jpg

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#20989 - 05/27/24 02:13 PM Re: Only Fans [Re: Soapy]
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Registered: 07/09/19
Posts: 215
Loc: Jersey City, NJ
I had an awful experience with Onlyfans. All of a sudden they were flagging my content for nonsense stuff. I had to delete over 20 videos. I was getting warnings for using words like "twelve" or "forced" etc. My pegging content was getting deleted.

Randomly one day they banned my account, no warning. Stole over $800 from me and made it look like I ghosted the platform. To my subscribers it looked like I blocked them, which was very upsetting. When I appealed the ban, they said I needed to "prove" I didnt break tos but only accepted proof taken from my account... The account I couldn't access. It was impossible. They stopped replying. They wouldnt even let me access my tax forms, it was insane.

Onlyfans is done with sex workers. They used them to startup their business, but now they are so big they feel they dont need us anymore.

I was literally top 6%. Thousands of hours put into that platform, POOF, gone.

At least loyalfans seems SW friendly. OF never did.


Edited by DommeLynx (05/27/24 02:13 PM)
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#21015 - 06/06/24 12:02 PM Re: Only Fans [Re: DommeLynx]
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Registered: 10/13/15
Posts: 1320
Loc: Romania
I am sorry to hear that happened. I've heard the same thing over and over about OF and I had the same thing with supposed violations of their TOS but no help trying to figure out exactly what the violation was.

Like you, they took most of my content down. I put very little energy into it anymore and I drain the account regularly. They are notorious for suspending accounts and keeping the money. Someone really should initiate a class action suit against the. Loyal Fans is 1000% better.
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#21016 - 06/06/24 12:04 PM Re: Fan Sites [Re: Domina M]
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Please don't give OF any support by hosting your content there. They are despicable. Loyal Fans is the much better platform and the owners actually support the FemDom community and are BDSM friendly. Customer service is great.
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#22920 - 05/07/25 08:37 AM Re: Fan Sites [Re: palmer]
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Registered: 07/16/24
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I just keep a handwritten list of what I’ve done, like who I sessioned with and when. Helps me remember things and spot patterns in what works or doesn’t.

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#23000 - 05/21/25 03:22 AM Re: Fan Sites [Re: YveZmm]
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Registered: 07/16/24
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Originally Posted By YveZmm
I just keep a handwritten list of what I’ve done, like who I sessioned with and when. Helps me remember things and spot patterns in what works or doesn’t.


The numbers can be tricky at first, and I messed up the renewal settings more than once. I found https://divafluence.com/onlyfans-pricing-guide/ super useful though—helped me figure out how to price things without overthinking it. It's straight to the point and cleared up stuff I kept googling over and over.

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